Wife Cheated 2 years ago, still cant get over it?

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Guy responding: Since there are no kids involved I would prepare to end it. If she kept the emails there is something about the relationship she won't let go of. You are right to be hurt, I assume "not the best of husbands" doesn't mean you cheated? Get control of the finances, she can bargain with you during the divorce. Depending on your state she may be entitled to half so don't blow it on a midlife crisis. Then one day pack her suitcase, change the locks on the house/apt and when she comes home have it on the porch etc. with a note. Make a reservation for her at the closest Motel 6 and pay for it, include the address in the note.