Wife Cheated 2 years ago, still cant get over it?

[gary b]

GET TO CHURCH!!!

You haven't got a clue about "Unconditional Love" and "Godly Forgiveness", and you need lessons.

The secular world doesn't understand this. By not accepting the full definition of God, they can't possibly conceive of how someone COULD forgive anyone after something like that. They can't understand how a rape victim could forgive her attacker, or how a rape victim MUST forgive her attacker if SHE is to heal emotrionally.

Same goes for your marriages. YOU CANNOT HEAL until you have learned to TRULY give your forgiveness based on you unconditional love for your wife. It is called foreGIVEness, not forEARNEDness, because you must give it even if it is never asked for. You forgive unconditionally because you love unconditionally.

And the secular world is UNABLE to teach this to you! The secular world insists on revenge and vengeance, "If you hurt me then I hurt you". This is NOT the example that God lives by. We killed Jesus, but God STILL loves us.

YOU BOTH NEED TO BE IN CHURCH, the ONLY place where such a profound level of love is exampled, explained, and TAUGHT.