Why do women try to ruin their husband relationship with his friends?

[kate]

Spend more time worrying about your friendship with the guy, not his wife. If she's acting weird, just ignore her. Clearly, this isn't a situation where you can also be friends with her, so don't. But also don't let her get into your head like this. There are a thousand things she could be trying to do and if you are more focused on her than on him, you're already not in a good place. Get a girlfriend and ignore his crazy wife. It'll help your friendship the most to just let her do what ever strange thing she's trying. Typically, though, to manipulate you, she'll need you to buy into it. So don't. Stop thinking about her.