Why Cant I Get a Girlfriend? :(?

[Retired R.N.]

Hello Connor, I am so sorry you were hurt today, that stings a lot! But, maybe your
love just hasn't come along yet. You are only 17 and have a whole life ahead of you to find the one real love out there that is waiting for you to find it.
I believe that there is one person somewhere in thei world made just for you. You
just have to stop trying to find it so hard and one day when you stop trying so hard, it will be standing right in front of you.
Stop paying attention to all the kid crap and mushy stuff and be ready for the right one who is feeling just like you right now.
Do you really think you are the only one all alone today, only millions of people
are in the same boat as you.
Take it from a wise old bird who made some bad choices in love, wait till that
one special girl comes into your life, it will be so worth it! You two will click like
you have known each other all your life. I know you are lonely and want a girl now but God has someone else in the plan for you. Trust in him to send you
the right one when the time is right. These relationships the kids are making now won't last long because they are playing games with each other. None are
really serious.
I am sorry this girl hurt you and if I were you I would not continue to be friends with her because she isn't interested in you but wants to just be a friend?
Just say Hello when you pass her as if it never bothered you at all. Don't
allow her to see that she hurt you because it could have been intended to.
She isn't your friend and I am sure she has a boyfriend already who spent time with her tonight.
Keep yourself busy with things you like to do, sports, reading, whatever you
like to be involved with. Think about your future, college or service, tech school
cars, learning a trade, stay busy and you won't feel so alone. Make some good guy friends and spend time with them doing things.
LOVE is out there for you, it is going to be a very special someone and it just
is a matter of waiting for her to find you. They say that when you stop looking for love, it will come and find you, I believe that! God bless.