HELP MY GF AND HER EXS ON SOCIAL MEDIA. WHAT SHOULD SHE DO?

[Boudicca]

If she is "the one", then when are you moving to the States to be with her? If your relationship is just long distance carried out solely via electronic means and will never be anything else then it is hardly fair of you to start applying rules as if you two were in a real relationship where you will actually become physically intimate. If you will be long distance via electronics forever what do you expect her to do? Stay in her house, never talk to anyone never have even electronic conversations with anyone? Never have sex? Unless you are physically together you cannot apply rules to her about her physical person. Seeing as you see electronic communication with a person as a relationship I can see why you feel that her talking to other men by the same means is cheating but actually it isn't. Neither a relationship nor cheating. She is your pen friend. And that is all.