Ex contacted after several years of no contact?

[Sue C]

You failed to mention just one thing that just could answer a lot of your questions. Does he live near you, or at least close enuf to be able to visit you?! IF he does live within driving distance to you, you could always invite him to dinner at your home!! You could simply invite him to dinner, & kiddingly say you could play your games in person rather than on the Inter Net. It's much easier to "read" a person one on one to see their body language. I'm sure if you actually did see him, it would tell you a lot, ans. a lot of your questions. You'd also be "telling" him you're "free". Just something to think about!!...best to you...