has my bloke cheated?

[Rachael]

This is very sensitive to me so please answer with sensible answers.

Ive been with my bloke for 18 months, i thought he was one of these perfect men that did knew how to treat a woman etc.

On friday i found out he had a secrect facebook account, all this friends was young females and only 2 males!!
I asked him about it he denied having one, then i showed him the proof i had he admitted it, i asked him to log in so i can see what hes been up to, he did and i am totally destroyed and shocked what i read "(

25 inbox messages to girls alot younger than me stating how hot they looked, how good looking they are, sayin how he wants to get to know them, calling them babes ( thats what he calls me )

i feel cheated destroyed soo upset.
He cried to be forgived, said he wont do it again etc but i get upset all the time now, i dont trust him, he wanted to meet with these girls im just destroyed.

We are workin through it but i dont think i can. I see it as cheating.