Can I start a coversation on my GFs facebook without her knowing?

[Amber]

Do you trust your gf? There are trust issues here. Best thing I love is that my bf and I know each other's passwords for everything and we trust each other. If I didn't trust him we couldn't really be happy together. The fact that you wanna go behind her back to message a guy shows distrust. You should probably be questioning whether or not you should be in a relationship with her. My bf and I have a past and exes but if you want a future with someone that should not matter. I highly advise you not to dl what you plan to do. If she catches you, it can only go downhill. Who's to say the guy won't message her later when you are not on her FB?