Why are they doing this to me?

[Jill]

- Both of your parents tells you "everything is your fault"
- They complain about everything you do
- They're monitoring you on FB and they threatens to take it away

Both of your parents are toxic and your family is called "dysfunctional family". They are probably not doing this on purpose and they probably don't know what they are doing. They're having problems of their own BUT they happen to be adults. They have abilities to fix all that or manage it in healthy ways, but instead, they're taking it out on you.

Or they might have both grew up in dysfunctional family and this is the way they were raised, so they don't know any other way to do it. They might think this is the way to raise children properly from their childhood experiences.

Or your mother might be seriously mentally ill and your father is getting overwhelmed. So they snap on you.

Could be one of these or combinations of these.