Fiancé wants a 3 month break?

[Butterfly222]

Obviously he is suffering from depression and probably other psychological problems. However, most couples work these things out together. I think it would be good for you to also get your own counseling to see how you really feel and what you really want. Professional help is the best way to get to those answers. If he is blocking you out of his life, that is not a good sign. It could be just his mental condition or the fact that you just remind him of the past and he can't handle that. I think you need to do what is best for you since he evidently is doing what is best for him. He isn't considering how you feel and trying to work through this with you. I would think it would be a good idea to go forward and not just wait for him. It could be much longer than 3 months before he gets the help he needs, it could be 3 years or never. Yes, you care for and about him but you also have to take care of yourself.