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Fiancé wants a 3 month break?
03-24-2014, 02:09 PM
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This 'break' thing is bull crap IMO..you don't run from your problems, especially when in a relationship, you share and you work thru it TOGETHER......

Do NOT look at what he says but what he DOES and from what you have said he has....

1) left the relationship
2) refuses to really communicate
3) has cut you off from contact thru social media but not his friends.....

If I were you I would stop trying to contact him altogether and do not respond to any rare communication from him (texts are so d@mn impersonal)....he wants a break, then GIVE him a complete break.....and get on with your life. You are right, it IS unfair for him to expect you to keep the light in the window while he cuts you out of his life except for very minium contact that HE controls, while he does whatever......
You can't help him...only HE can help himself.

if at the end of this 3 month 'break' it's still more of the same...then cut him completely out of your life-he has no business keeping you in limbo waiting on what HE decides to do and when he decides to do it.
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Fiancé wants a 3 month break? - A - 03-24-2014, 01:15 PM
[] - carol - 03-24-2014, 01:27 PM
[] - juliet romanov - 03-24-2014, 01:29 PM
[] - Mike Z - 03-24-2014, 01:34 PM
[] - LoveCats - 03-24-2014, 01:42 PM
[] - Butterfly222 - 03-24-2014, 01:53 PM
[] - Another Crone - 03-24-2014, 02:01 PM
[] - 524 - 03-24-2014 02:09 PM
[] - sewgoodmama - 03-24-2014, 02:12 PM

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