why wont my parents let me be a normal teenager?

[gemia]

im a teen girl. i live in a smallish town. my mom mainly wont let me be a normal teenager. im not allowed to wear makeup, have social media... ok so i hve an instagram but my mom says i cant have my face on it. its kinda depressing having to watch around making sure no one is takong pictures of me to keep it off instagram. i dont even want to post "selfies" i just want to post pictures of me and my friends at the mall. eveytime i ask her the answer is no and she starts preaching about like someone is gonna come and like stalk me. and she makes me watch these movies about people who get kidnapped because of facebook or something. i try to explain MY INSTAGRAM IS PRIVATE. i dont think this is fair. help?