Is It Immature To Delete An Ex Off Facebook?

[Carol]

Yes, unfriend him and don't get in touch with him. He'll just be condescending and a douche. He already is a coward by breaking up with you thru texting.

What you're looking for is closure. You could write a journal and read it once a week. But just write until you're tired. Then close the book and cry.

Make two lists: one of what he was like before the breakup. The second is about the person that he is now. The point is to understand that the person who you thought he was is no longer there. He's been replaced by this insensitive boor. (I'm still appalled that he texted your breakup.)

Finally, write him letter BUT do not mail it. At some point you'll be tired of feeling sad and that's when you burn your letter and journal. Hence, you get the closure you're looking for. We all need it. Good luck and I'm sorry that you're feeling awful. But as the cliche goes, "this too shall pass." And, you know what, it's true.