Why are feminist women not feminine? Why is being feminine considered as something done to 'please' men?

[Lazybug]

I like being feminine. I will be feminine even if I am surrounded by women. What is so bad in acting like a woman? Being feminine is not equal to being oppressed...
If a man is soft and sensitive, feminists are like “Oh dear! There is nothing bad in being a little feminine. All men don’t have to be rough and break things!”. And if a women tries to be feminine “Oh look at that! That woman is trying to get all the male attention. As if she needs a man’s approval to live her life”