My boyfriend did something disgusting?

[lisa]

Okay, at best this is a cruel, sadistic guy who enjoys torturing some poor girl who likes him for crap and giggles. At worst, he's trying to get together with her behind your back. If I had to pick which it is, I'd say it is the latter. If he was so in love with you and didn't want this girl at all, he wouldn't be expending the energy it takes to write these messages out and send them to her. That takes effort! Why is he putting so much effort into some girl just to mess with her when he has a girlfriend? Not to mention, the sexual imagery suggest that he has a vivid fantasy life where she plays a starring role. I wouldn't accept his lame excuses or his crocodile tears. You know deep down what the truth is.