I have a very strange insecurity… I need someone's opinion on it.?

[Mi✕...]

its not strange at all.
you really shouldnt care wat he thinks of u,
but i understand how u feel.
having a group of friends means nothing.

"the Realest people don't have a lot of friends"

you dont need to have a ton of friends to b perceived as "cool"

it is not a popularity Contest.

in my opinion , that is a very superficial immature way of thinking.

im 23, never had a facebook, myspace, social media, etc.
cuz i can really care less how many friends a person has.
and thats why ill never have one.
everyone on their seems to be trying to prove something
or be perceived as something, godd its ridiculous.
seems worse than high school to me but
anyway...

i can say iv had about 2 REAL friends , lots n lots of acquaintances
lots party friends , but wen it comes down to who has Truly
been there for me, My family and 2 friends.

im not a LOSER , and if a Guy thinks that , then he is fake too.

im happy this way, and if a guy likes me, he will appreciate my realness &
my appreciation for GENUINE friendships,
you should realize that this is one of YOUR Qualities.
be proud of who you are.

if he has a lot of friends, may b just accept that hes a social guy.

i would like my bf to be a fun social guy
but i also wouldnt mind a Loner.



another suggestion would be, maybe date a more introverted guy ..?

u will see as u get older how hard it is to have a "Real" friend.

good luck