How can i bust down the GAY closet door?!?!?

[Sean L]

well im gay, im 21. in the military, in the closet too. im in love with my boyfriend who is back home. i want to be out, i hate being in the closet.

i have an idea on how to come out, any better ideas?

so my idea is to call my sister, then my mom and tell them that im gay. weeks later, when i go home, we can have more awkward conversations and maybe they can meet my boyfriend. then im going on a trip with him for a few days. i want to post a picture of us together (just standing together, maybe my arm around him) on facebook, maybe even make it my profile pic. then i want to change my "intrested in" to men. i think anyone on facebook who cares about me enough will notice the profile pic and want to know who it is. maybe theyll ask or maybe they will look and see that im intrested in men.

is that a good way to come out of the closet quick? i want to come out quick, but not too quick.