Girl i like. But she says she dosent feel the same way?

[Lumpy Space]

Hey man, I'm sorry to have to tell you this but 'lauren' only sees you as a friend. After all, friends stay up at night and talk to each other about what they're doing.
The reason she said she didn't want a relationship, well it was a way to tell you to back off. What she meant is that she didn't want a relationship with you, rather than not wanting a relationship at all.
Now if she liked you even a little bit the same way you like her, she wouldn't tell you to back off like she did, she would leave some window for opportunity.

Sorry, but since you've never had a girlfriend before it's kind of hard for you to understand these signs. Plus you're a guy.