why am I flirting with him if I have a boyfriend?

[YoungFolksRisen]

We'll it's different than what you've been doing for the 4 years, it's something new! Also because maybe ur bored in the relationship.
First off tell the guy ur not dating and say
something like this," I have a boyfriend and I'm not going to give up 4 years go just for a fling with you"
But if u really like this new guy and want to go after him, do it. But know u could lose both of them.but if u still love the guy ur dating, don't lose 4 years!
Try spicing things up with ur boyfriend? Do different dates, stay home and play games and checkers! Make a meal for him. See if the spark is still there.