Having trouble with my wife having a Facebook behind my back can you help please?

[LadyJade]

If I had to guess, it sounds like she has a few problems. One, she seems to not feel that she's getting the attention she's seeking from you (being made to feel beautiful, desired, sexy, attractive, etc). This is likely why she's posting what she's posted on her FB. Two, counseling would probably be a good idea to get a neutral party's take on why she feels the need to create FB accounts 'without telling'. It could be she feels controlled, or she has nothing else to occupy her time, or she could very well have a disorder that is causing her to seek out attention with inappropriate behavior. Please sit her down and try having a calm discussion about it. If that fails, please sign yourselves up with a couples counselor to help you wade through this mess. Good luck.