Having trouble with my wife having a Facebook behind my back can you help please?

[Ruby]

what she is doing is obviously abnormal for a supposedly happy mother & wife. I totally understand what worries u.

maybe the reason is - that ur wife suffers through post pregnancy crisis. this happens as a woman starts feeling trapped in her own house, she doesn't feel sexy anymore, lacks her man's attention so tries to find it elsewhere. and online - is the easiest option nowadays.

try to have a conversation with her. let her know how her having an online life where she pretends being free as a bird and not acknowledging ur existense makes u feel and how much it hurts u. ask her if there is any reason for her behaviour, maybe she is lacking ur attention, could be that she stopped feeling loved? just reach out to her, talk in a calm manner & crack her open.

as soon as u know what the root of the problem is - then u can fix it.