Would you be offended if your friend told you you lack substance?

[Mel]

She's a nutcase. Normal people don't do that. If normal people don't like the way you do things, they stay out of your way. If you are good friends with them, maybe they'll tell you once what they don't like and then avoid you in some way. The detailed way of her criticism shows me that randall is just absolutely right--she is enjoying controlling you and probably picked you cause she sees that you would take her comments to heart. Why do you even listen to her or bother about her blocking you? LAUGH at her doing that, look at her behaviour and just laugh at how bizarre it is instead of looking for faults in you. She has no business to tell you what grades you should make or whatever. None at all. Stay out of her way and just laugh at her. Don't give her power.