I want to save my relationship?

[Softtouchmale]

Any woman that comes into, then out of, then back into, then out of your life, is not worth wasting your time on.

In all candor here, she is not committed and never was. She left you to go back to her ex-boyfriend and came back. What does that tell you? You were not at the top of her list.

Then when she saw you talking to someone else, she realized she was about to lose you. So she tried and tried. Then when you realized you were used by some moron who was just playing with you, you got insecure and took her back.

My honest appraisal of this situation, based on what you wrote: You and your girlfriend, ex-girlfriend or whatever she is at the given moment, are two very insecure and hyper-sensitive people.

If she is angry about the things you wrote to the fake moron that plagued your life, she ought to consider the fact that you feel like you can't communicate with her; and likely she has had a hard time communicating with you.

So instead of both of you remaining committed to each other and working through your issues by speaking to one another, no matter how much it hurts, and trying to discuss things and reach something called a consensus, you both throw a fit and walk out.

If you want a real, dedicated, committed relationship then you have to work on it. Not once, not on the rare occasion, but all the time. If you don't you end up with the stinking mess you have on your hands right now -- both of you.

Perhaps you both need to take a break from the dating world, and just talk. No sex. No dating. No hanging out. You sit down and talk about your issues, and listen to each other. When you do that you'll discover anything's possible.