How should I handle my gf talking to her ex?

[edie]

well it's ok for her to still be friends with him as long as she has respect for you. but I wouldn't approve of her going to the dorm room even if they are with others. not every break up ends because of a terrible relationship and they never speak again. but which relationship is she talking about not ending, the gf/bf or the just friends relationship. is it clear to you that he is not her boyfriend anymore and they are just school friends, or are you offended that because they are suppose to be broke up they are still seeing each other as friends? or are you afraid that they will get back together because you can't be with her as much as you would like to be because you work all the time? if that is the case then you will have to trust her and not be jealous. another thing too that decision should have been made between you and her and not her mother.