Why don't people join my Minecraft server?

[Drakhma]

i only play on servers that - don't lag, don't crash, are never down, they do not have pvp enabled EVERY WARE because i don't want some to raid my base because they are to lazy to get their own shit, generally booby traps work for them but i have had ppl in groups come after me i still won tho, apparently they didn't think about aiming for the player "head" with a weapon, i killed all 3 of them with a stone sword and iron armor, hey i got free diamond armor and other stuff from the idiot trio.
if your server is like something i would play tell me the address, if not then to bad, i generally just farm and build stuff