I cannot deal with my rude step siblings anymore. What do I do?

[Brian F]

Now that you are an adult you can leave all the niceties behind. Stop sending gifts, stop sending cards, stop ackowledging them at all. if they start sending anything then you can ad dthem back in easily enough since you have done it for years anyways.

There are plenty of people in the world who would be happy to get a card or a gift (military, orphans, poor etc...). Spend your time and money someplace were it is appreciated.

You coudl post it on facebook as saying you have stopped sending cards to people who don;lt send to you and instead are sending them to those who appreciate the sentiment.