My husband refuses to separate himself from his parents and siblings. Should I divorce him?

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Are they running an illegal business? Sounds weird that they befriend your friends to control you.

Take a trip with your daughter to visit your family in another state. Don't tell your husband until you are on the plane/ they are on their way to get you. Maybe you will gain some insight on what to do.

If you do think they could be doing something illegal, maybe you should file for divorce. They could kill you if they suspect you know something.

I think your husband hates their controlling. He is just so used to being blackmailed. Buy some books about controlling parents and emotional blackmail. Leave them around the house.

If you are clueless and feel like you are going to lose it, go to a/call domestic violence shelter. Tell them what is going on. They will probably know how to direct you.