Is he a keeper or phoney?

[Amber]

There a guy (Desmond) who is hella cute, We go to the same Tech College and he's in one of my classes and he's also uber smart. The thing is his program is Mortuary Science and Funerary Services and I'm having a hard time getting over the creep factor.
We had a few kind-of dates. We paired up to go to an art museum to write about it for class and then he asked me out for burgers after class one day. Then last night he took me out to eat and to a concert.
While I'm in school I'm staying with my sis and bro-in-law. So he picks me up at the house and has flowers.
We go to a sports bar type restaurant & there's a pool table and while we're waiting for our food he "shows" me how to shoot pool by standing over me and having his hands on mine. I got to admit it was nice.
Then we got to the concert &its a pop punk band & was really loud and after an hour into it I started getting a headache. He said if I wasn't having fun then we could go so we left and we just drove around a while because he said it was too early to take me back home.
He asked if I wanted to go to his place and spend the night and I told him that it was way too early for sleepovers. He said he'd be ready when I was.
I go back home and my sister asked how it went. I replay it for her and she says that Des is a keeper. My bil thinks he's a phoney & said funeral directors are major phonies pretending to care about their clients when they are using grief to sell a bunch of stuff they don't need.