PLEASE HELP: I got into my FIRST ARGUMENT ever with my girlfriend - am I justified in feeling this way?

[Kirito]

I completely agree with your description, you are absolutely right in feeling the way you do. In a way, lusting after someone else is an indirect way of cheating on you. Jesus said in Matthew 5:28 "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" The same can apply for the situation of your girlfriend, although she isn't committing adultery since the two of you aren't married. Nevertheless, it is an indirect way of being disloyal to you.

To make things worse, she was clearly trying to rub it in by trying to make you inferior to him. I would suggest that you have a serious conversation with her about her commitment to the relationship because true lovers are supposed to support each other, not put each other down. Ask her what she thinks about relationships and love in general so you can have a better understanding of her character. Hopefully, the two of you can work together to fix the relationship

As for her crush on Hollywood guys, I am sure she will eventually get over it because in one way or another Hollywood stars usually end up in some kind of trouble. Sometimes people don't feel so great about their famous crushes once they get to see them personally because they are flawed just like the rest of us.

Also, praying to God helps because he will give you the wisdom and strength to form strong relationships and he will bring the right people into your life as long as you have faith.


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