I feel like im losing my friends?

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It is very normal for this to happen. It's a part of life and growing up. Everyone experiences this. However, just because things are changing and everyone is going in separate directions, doesn't mean that you have to forget about them. For instance, whenever birthdays or special events in your friends' lives come up, you can always extend your wishes and congratulations. If you want to remain friends with people who are important to you then yes you have to do the work. However, that doesn't mean you have to try so hard. Everyone is busy now and doing their own thing, so being real close like before isn't going to be the same. Getting together now will be more for like, birthdays, an occasional dinner, graduation celebration, or a wedding ceremony, etc...

At this stage in life you should be focusing on your future and goals and doing the things that will get you there. You should join clubs or volunteer your time to things that interest you or will support your goals. Plus you're in school still, so a lot of your focus should be on that. But you know what the great thing about living in today's world is? Social media. Back when I was in college it didn't really exist yet. So the way I had to communicate was through standard snail mail, or via phone. So Facebook, email, instagram, and all those other social media hubs will help you stay connected to see how people are progressing in life.

Don't stop trying of course. People are always going to appreciate you reaching out to say hello. But accept that things do change. This will make it easier for you to forge ahead in life. Plus you are going to meet so many new people that will enlarge your circle of friends