Am I bad person for wanting to dump him?

[Allison]

There's certain things about this situation that aren't bad of you and then there's some situations where I would find you shallow.

The things that aren't bad of you to think
-Spending money on the dates and he's not paying at all. Even if you are a lawyer, he's a grown man that can pay for his own ways. That's not fair of you to be doing all that.
-Telling you that he loves you after 2 weeks of dating, that's understandable. This is an adult relationship and telling someone you love them takes time. 2 weeks is just not enough time.


The things that make you bad
-His depression, now this depends if you want to be there or not. If he's constantly talking about depressing things, you should be optimistic and tell him that he can't be living like that where he's just always being a downer.
-The bald, one leg shorter, and small penis is pretty bad. Some of those things it sounds like he can't help and using that as an excuse to dump him is pretty bad.


Overall, you should do what makes you happy. If this guy isn't making you happy, then you leave him.