Am I in the wrong here or what?

[BabeHart]

This belongs in Family, because it's an issue regarding your mother (it's not a question about marriage or divorce)...

People are silly to allow social media to have such an impact on their behavior, but you are quite young to be thinking in terms of marriage...hold off another 6 yrs and if you feel the same about your guy, THEN marry...you've got a TON of maturing and growing that you'll do between now and your mid 20s, and chances are high you two will grow apart because of it...

Your mom may or may not come around in time...sounds like she made her share of poor choices as a young woman, and hopes you'll do better...the divorce rate among young adult couples is the highest of any age group (trust me, I'm part of that statistic...married at 19, divorced at 27 with a LOT of bumps along the way)...