Am I in the wrong here or what?

[RobertRay]

"Keep in mind my mother purposely got pregnant to my father at 15 and he was 19 after she knew him for 4 months. She wanted to get married to him at 16."

Just because she did this doesn't mean she would do it the same way again if she could do it all over. I'm not saying her current behavior is right, because it's not. She is acting very immature.

Babe is right that the two of you are going to go through changes as you mature into your 20's and your careers. Everyone does. What is the rush to get married? Just so you can say "I'm married"? Being a military spouse is a big challenge with higher divorce rate and it would be very smart to get established in career and residency first.