Frusturated With Life?

[Matthew]

Hi im 14 and ive been keeping secrets from my parents my whole life:

Using Wi-Fi=Secret
Facebook=secret
Twitter=Secret
Email=Secret


Im 14 and I cant even have any social media! Not even a email! I also have a girlfriend but they got pissed off and wanted me to be friends.
How on earth can i just be friends when I feel so strongly about someone!!! Also kids ages 10+ have phones. Its no fair that a 10 year old stuck up kid who gets bad grades gets a cell phone and a kid who gets good grades and is good to his community doesnt. Im tired of sneaking stuff from my parents. They never let me follow my dreams of developing technology.
So I need Answers
1. How can I convince my parents to allow me get a email
2. How can I convince my parents to give my GF a chance
3. How can I convince my parents to let me buy a phone?

Its no fair that everyone has a phone and I dont!