Am i over my ex? Or not?

[Patricia]

It seems like you're heading toward the point of acceptance, and reality is, it's a good idea to go through the motions like you did after a break up. We come to realize why the relationship didn't work out, and can even take assessment of our own role in the deterioration of the relationship, OR more importantly, what we can't tolerate. With every passing relationship, we do learn a bit more about how to be in one.

My rule of thumb - if i start seeing someone, or go out on a couple dates with someone and feel the least bit of discomfort over their actions and behaviors, i move on. Believe me, a person's behaviors aren't going to improve just because we want them to!

take care!! observe!