someone please answer! we need help.?

[Lily]

Sometimes things pop up out of nowhere. It may not mean anything, or he might be shifty. But either way, it's unhealthy and an invasion of privacy to go through someone else's phone. Obviously there are already trust issues in the relationship. If you don't trust the person you're with, you don't belong in the relationship. It is also possible that it was there before the relationship began.