How do I tell my extreme & overly anxious mom i'm pregnant?

[Heather]

I'd say to wait until the first trimester has ended. Not only does the chance of miscarriage decrease enormously, but by then you should have had your first ultrasound and any blood tests for genetic or chromosomal disorders. That way you have some reassuring news of the health of your baby to help ease her mind and fears. If she stresses beyond that, maybe allow her to come to ssome appointments or another ultrasound to ask your obgyn any questions and concerns she might have. Congrats by the way!