Having a hard time with my boyfriend being "friends" with his ex?

[SpookyLee True]

I personally feel that the contact they have is inappropriate considering their past relationship. I would not be happy with that level of contact between my partner and his ex unless they had kids together. I also feel that he is acting very selfishly by not taking your feelings about his relationship with his ex into consideration.

OK, I understand his point when he says that you should not be controlling who he is friends with. However, how many women would put up with their partners ex-girlfriends coming over to their house when they are not at home? Not many! It also makes me wonder if he would have told you she'd been over if your Mom hadn't told you herself?

I'm sorry hon, but to me, there's something a little "off" with his "friendship" with his ex and I would personally need to be talking to him pretty seriously about this.

Good luck xxx