how do i handle my stricked dad???

[Christina]

ok so i am girl and 16 in 2 months i have a really stricked dad. there are lots of things he doesnt let me do like:
im not allowed to sleep over anywhere not even family. im not allowed to go to parties,im not allowed to have my own values/opinions, i have to obey everything he says or im in big shit, im not allowed to have caffeine (wtf), im not allowed any social networking, not even allowed to say at least hello, how are ya to a boy, always have to take his side, and he always does things or tells me to do things for him just to piss me off and he just replies with "im teaching u how to not get angry", im never allowed to have attitude and when he takes my phone away he always give it to my sister to have for the week. im not even allowed to wear a skirt/dress more than 2cm above the knee, im not allowed in my room for too long, im like banned from it sometimes. like im a teenager like f*** off mate. he lets my brother who is a year older go out and do whatever and the worst part is my brother has turned into my dad... what do i do? i dont want to live like this anymore and dont say "oh he only cares about you"