Should my mom have the right to access my facebook messages and diary?

[me]

If you were giving your mom reason to be worried I'd say she's doing the right thing. But since you're clearly a good kid she's completely in the wrong here. You shouldn't apologize for calling her a b*tch, she should apologize for being one. If she hadn't been so nosy she wouldn't even know you had thought that.

My mom put secret spyware stuff in my phone and computer and it's made it hard to trust people even to this day. I have a lot of built up anger because of it. I was way worse of a kid than you though it sounds like, but still. If a kid has reason to be distrusted then it's understandable but if they show they're good kids and still have their privacy disrespected it can cause a lot of negative psychological effects