Should I pursue this guy?

[Charlie]

The short answer is: No.

Here's why.

Your quote was: "Who I found really cute"

Ok look, YOU didn't find him really cute. He IS really cute. TO EVERY GIRL BELOW HIM. If you were in his league? You wouldn't be that impressed, youd be desiring even hotter guys.

That's why fat girls will hit on short but in shape guys, whereas hot girls wont look at a short guy even if hes in great shape (unless he has the face of tom cruise). Or another example, hot girls wont find a hot guy THAT impressive- but average girls will drool for the hot guy.

Long story short:

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He is not interested.

EDIT: I just re-read it and confirmed my initial suspicions when you said he was flakey in the texting and stopped responding. Yeah. Hes totally not interested (but I already could have told you that).

PURSUE MEN IN YOUR LEAGUE, OR WHO ARE ONLY KINDA CUTE! If you pursue "really cute" guys, they will only 1) ignore you or 2) bang you out when no better girls are around .But they will not respect you, love you, or date you or commit to you in any way. Just to make that clear. Ok?