Boyfriend of 6 years cheated...helpppp.?

[John W]

You have every right to feel hurt and betrayed. If what this girl says is true, and even to a certain extent even if its not, you ex wasn't faithful to you. At the very least he was chatting up other girls during the time you were still together and that was probably the reason he was so "distant".

There is no telling really why he wants back with you other than maybe realizing what he lost when he cheated on you. But one thing is certain, as much as he talks about you being together there are other girls in his life that are a lot closer physically than you are and that is almost impossible to compete with.

The best thing you can do at this point is to just move and forget him. Yeah, its going to be tough but the alternative is having a guy you can never trust, and believe me, you don't want that.