Since it's okay for wives & girlfriends to snoop, how about if men do it too?

[Kurt]

Here's the other funny thing about people who think that it's okay. If someone wants to cheat on you, they will. All you are doing by forcing your insecurity on your partner is teaching them to be careful and cover their tracks. If they know that you are going to snoop, then they will not use their phone or email to do it. They will use work email or buy a cheap prepaid phone. It is really pointless and a waste of time. And I can't imagine being married to someone who I didn't trust or who I thought did not trust me. If either of those things were true, I would get a divorce.