Since it's okay for wives & girlfriends to snoop, how about if men do it too?

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I am tempted to sya you go to extremes with the gps thing, but I know better. I am getting the feeling here you are too private a person for many a girls to have a comfortable relationship with.
Let me propose this question to you! What if... what if you had a secret you considered shameful? What then? What if you were in a serious relationship (possiblity of marriage)? and you are impling that cheating is not going on by the the person being investigated, right? Then if the person who is being investigated has a shameful secret, then why does he feel justified to hide it? Would it not be a type of deception to a girl who did marry him with out knowing? My point is there can be such a thing as too much privacy in a relationship. If a man is not cheating, would he not want the girl he will marry to know who exactly she is commiting to? Or do you think that if she too has a shameful secret, it is ok for you to not know who you are commiting to? Or that it should be onesided??