Since it's okay for wives & girlfriends to snoop, how about if men do it too?

[kate]

I'd have no problem with it. I haven't gone threw anything that is my husband's but if I had a reason to believe he was cheating I would. He's welcome to check my email, facebook or phone. I trust and love him and if it would make him feel better it's fine with me. He's also encouraged to meet any male friends I have and to come by my work and visit. I love him, so I'm happy for him to be involved in my life. My purse is pretty much fair game. Half the time, I'm carrying most of his stuff in there, so he's certainly gone through that. Since we're married, our belongings are all combined in boxes, which we both packed, so he's been through all of those.

If we weren't living together and married, I'd feel differently of course, but I'm in a partnership and if he needed to do it to trust me, I wouldn't be worried.