Help with high school relationship?

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First, consider that it probably took a tremendous amount of courage for this girl to send you that Valentine, so regardless of your feelings...be gentle.

Second, it's not inappropriate or stalker-like to suggest meeting someplace at school, during school hours, or at a school event. That wouldn't have to be viewed as a "date" or anything, just as an opportunity to hang out for a minute. Tell her you want to give her a card too, and then find a funny one to give (make sure it's not nasty...just funny).

If this sort of meeting goes well, it can lead to others. Good luck.