I can't get over him. What do I have to do?

[Jake]

You need to remove yourself from him. Getting over guys is really hard and even harder when they're around you constantly. Even if it is on Facebook or Twitter. Avoid contact as much as possible without seeming rude, and delete, unfriend, unfollow him of all social networks.

Another good tip for getting over a guy is to know that nothing will happen. Just tell yourself nothing's going to happen with him - you're not going to be in a relationship or kiss or anything like that. Start to picture yourself with someone else or just your life without him in it. You don't need him to live.

Finally, he sounds like a douche anyway if he is having girlfriends and kissing/holding you he's playing you. Friends don't do this, and if friends are doing this both of them will know it is not a romantic thing.

I have trouble getting attached to boys too and it is horrible being unsure if they like you back, so I hope this helps. :-)