Is there a site for this?

[Southpaw]

Well I`m afraid that "chat" is banned on this forum and can you can get reported for it by the purists that use the site and then get a violation notice or be suspended if two of them report you for it, and suspended is permanent here subject to appeal;
http://answers.yahoo.com/info/community_guidelines
Answerbank is a similar site but has a "Chatterbank" section which does allow you to chat, and it is good but painfully slow to load at times.
You can be incognito to the other users, but not to Answerbank;
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/
If you want a site that people come to you for advice or a chat then you will have to create your own, and will have to be be exceptionally good to get people to use it.
Regards, Boris.