Relationship Breakup - Head Games, Confusing Emotions And Kids Involved....Need Help!?

[Jack]

It's going to take some time for you to get over this, and I suggest getting into some therapy, or counseling to accomplish that. I've been there. Mother of my 2 kids divorced me after 29 years. Going to divorce support groups helped somewhat, but I also found a good counselor in a Pastor and his services were free.. I suggest you do both, if you can. In my opinion, you need to get whole enough, so you feel o-k entirely alone for awhile. Your pain and anger will finally go away, but it takes time. I wrestled with and recognized with many of my own demons, trying not to repeat those harmful patterns in a subsequent marriage. The best relationship book I have ever read helped me a lot, and I suggest you try to get your hands on it. The book titled; "Are You The One For Me? by Author Barbara DeAngeles will help you and it is not expensive, about 7 dollars at most bookstores, or available at Amazon.com books. Good luck and hang in there. I also recommend you turn to God to give you His strength and power to get through this trying time. Read Romans Chapter 8 verse 28. Reading the Bible will also help you. Peace be with you now, and always.