Relationship Breakup - Head Games, Confusing Emotions And Kids Involved....Need Help!?

[Sue C]

If you were/are unhappy in your relationship with her, you don't belong with her. It seems now she's trying her best to put guilt trips on you of all people. As you said, only 3 wks. after you split up, she's with someone else. If she was that "broken up" over it, she sure wouldn't be with anyone else, she would be home hurting, not even thinking of anyone at that point in time. For whatever reason, she chose to go out & date, even lost her job over taking too much time off. That she should have known better. She is not thinking rationally. She could be feeling guilt over all she's done. Realized how good she had it, but it just didn't work out that well. IF it was meant to be, it would have been, you two wouldn't have broken up. She's just not the rite one for you, that you WILL see. There is a special someone out there just for you. You haven't met her yet, but will when you least expect it. You'll then have all the love & happiness your heart can hold. For now, put the past in the past & leave it all there. Free yourself of her. Your past will be forever gone, but your future still your own. Things WILL work out for the best for you. IF she starts to threaten you about your children, let her know you'll take her to court & have a Judge settle it. She cannot take your children away from you, you did nothing that would come near warranting that. So don't worry about that. Just try to stay as civil with her & ans. her as you see fit. Don't allow her to put any guilt trips on you,she has NO cause. Time WILL work things out for you...the best to you ...